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MMRP 009 – Top 3 Ways to Turn Her Off (aka Antisexuality)

Antisexuality is a term I’ve defined to mean “An experience or that or thought that discourages sexual arousal and/or makes future sexual situations less enticing.” Today we are diving deeper into understanding the different factors that can turn off a woman and how they all fit together into an overall picture. Often times it can seem like women are very …

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Destination Love /w Chelli Pumphrey

Hey everyone! I was a guest on Chelli Pumphrey’s Destination Love show on the Voice America Radio Network! It was my first interview where I had to contend with actual commercial breaks…lots of fun. 🙂 Here’s what we talked about: What kinds of needs women are looking to have met if they don’t need a man to provide a house …

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MMRP 008 – What I learned about being a man over Christmas

Today’s episode is gonna be a little bit different. I’m going to let my stream of consciousness fly and talk about a few experiences I had over the Christmas holidays that had to do with being a man. Christmas is a time of year that combines extra meaning, importance, and increased demands in one convenient package. The amplified emotion around …

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MMRP 0007 – The Female Continuum of Love and Sex

Since about forever ago, good men have complained about how difficult it can be to understand whether or not their women will be interested in having sex on any given day. This is because women generally have a much broader idea about what “having sex” is because of her use of “feeling loved” as fuel to generate sexual arousal. In …

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MMRP 006 – The best way to turn on a woman is NOT her brain!!

You don’t have to go too far into the sex and relationship world before you come across a sentence like: “A woman’s biggest turn on is her brain.” And today we’re doing a little bit of mythbusting because I disagree. (Noticing a pattern yet? My girlfriend has taken to calling me a “general naysayer”.) While I appreciate the idea of …

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MMRP 005 – The Relationship Minimalism Primer

“Relationship Minimalism is the ability to instantly generate love, emotional connection, and sexual desire (when appropriate!). This must be able to occur anywhere, on a moment’s notice, have no regular financial cost or additional time commitment, and get more powerful every time it’s used.” In today’s episode we are going to deconstruct this statement, how it came to exist, and …

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MMRP 04 – How her sex drive changes in a long term relationship

Today we’re talking about what turns a woman on when she’s in a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP because it’s very different compared to what turns her on in a brand new relationship. After the honeymoon period is over, there is a general consensus from experts and the cultural narrative that it’s “normal” to not want sex as much. To say this …

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How does a man keep an independent superwoman in love with him?

It’s hard work dating a woman whose  Netflix account always puts “Inspiring Emotional Dramas Featuring a Strong Female Lead” at the very top of the list. You know the type – ambitious and independent, intimidatingly beautiful, into yoga and spirituality, and has dreams of impacting millions of women with a message of hope and inspiration towards becoming their best selves. …

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MMRP 003 – The Danger/Desire Paradox aka why you have to put in so much more effort for her to want sex in a long term relationship

Episode 03 is liiiiiive!! My recent thoughts have lead me to the understanding that while it would appear we are talking about sex and relationships, what we are actually doing is building a masterclass on understanding the female body. The better our understanding of the female body, the better our relationship and sex life will be. To that end, this …